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Janis Newman
B: 1946-04-11
D: 2017-12-11
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Newman, Janis
Gordon Freeman
B: 1939-01-25
D: 2017-12-07
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Freeman, Gordon
Jessie Nowell
B: 1962-04-10
D: 2017-11-30
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Nowell, Jessie
Rita Kondy
D: 2017-11-29
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Kondy, Rita
Mancill Taylor
B: 1940-06-21
D: 2017-11-27
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Taylor, Mancill
Richard Marks
B: 1923-11-15
D: 2017-11-23
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Marks, Richard
Fern Hass
B: 1921-03-22
D: 2017-11-22
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Hass, Fern
Toke Rogers
B: 1935-10-05
D: 2017-11-20
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Rogers, Toke
Bessie Jones
B: 1931-11-19
D: 2017-11-13
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Jones, Bessie
Merlinda Faudoa
B: 1950-12-06
D: 2017-11-08
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Faudoa, Merlinda
Barbara Blackwell
B: 1948-03-23
D: 2017-11-08
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Blackwell, Barbara
Joseph Bonner
B: 1927-05-02
D: 2017-11-06
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Bonner, Joseph
Jennifer Hopper
D: 2017-11-06
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Hopper, Jennifer
Richard Parish
B: 1936-02-15
D: 2017-11-03
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Parish, Richard
Michael Rede
B: 1958-01-30
D: 2017-10-29
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Rede, Michael
Nick Castillo
D: 2017-10-25
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Castillo, Nick
Donna Mabie
B: 1935-06-01
D: 2017-10-24
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Mabie, Donna
Emma Jean Benavidez
D: 2017-10-24
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Jean Benavidez, Emma
Becky Hughes
B: 1940-04-08
D: 2017-10-21
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Hughes, Becky
Marlene Peterson
B: 1943-05-08
D: 2017-10-17
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Peterson, Marlene
Theresa Baker
B: 1957-11-29
D: 2017-10-15
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Baker, Theresa

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You may not know exactly what you want to say in your Book of Memories™ condolence message. In fact, this may be the first time you've ever been faced with sharing your feelings or offering comforting words to someone who is grieving a loss. Whether it's the first time, or the fifth, we're here to offer some assistance. We've compiled some tips, and brought together a list of expressive words you can use in your condolences.

Tip #1: Be sincere. It's important to mean what you say, on the deepest emotional level. Yes, we know, "saying what you mean" can be harder - that's why we're here.

Tip #2: Keep it simple. You don't need to say much more than "I'm sorry for you loss," yet it's always wonderful to share a personal memory of their loved one, if you have one.

Tip #3: Don't tell them you know how they feel. Because you can't really know; even if you've endured the loss of a loved one in the past - your grief was yours, and this is theirs.

Tip #4: Share how you felt when you heard the news. Perhaps you were shocked, disbelieving, or deeply saddened. Let them know how the passing affected you personally.

Tip #5: Share Remind them that you will always hold the memory of their loved one close to you. It will be a comfort to them to know that their loved one will be remembered.

A Short List of Appropriate Phrases:

  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you during this difficult time.
  • Please accept my condolences on the loss of your partner.
  • With deepest sympathy for your loss.
  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Please know our loving thoughts embrace you each and every day.
  • Thinking of you in these difficult times and sending you love.
  • With heartfelt condolences.
  • Wishing you comfort at this sorrowful time.
  • Sharing in your sorrow, thinking of you and wishing I could be there
  • to hold your hand.
  • May the love of those around you, help you through the days ahead.
  • Hold tight to memories for comfort.
  • Lean on your friends for strength, and always remember how much you are cared about.
  • As you comprehend this profound loss, let yourself cry knowing each tear is a note of love rising to the heavens.
  • Our thoughts and prayers are with you.
  • Peace, prayers and blessings.
  • Words cannot even begin to express our sorrow.
  • You are in our prayers.
  • May your memories give you strength.
  • Remember that we love and care about you.
  • May the love of those around you help you through the days ahead.

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